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For all your life, you have been believing that you have passion in X and want to pursue a professional career in it. You go to university A because of this reason and after graduating, you successfully land on that one job you have always wanted. Yet, why do you feel some kind of dissatisfaction in your heart? You told yourself that, ‘It is my dream, I have always wanted to be here and I don’t want to quit just to regret it later’. Nonetheless, unfortunately, you cannot find enjoyment and excitement in what you are doing. Have your career goal been a lie, then?

Let’s think about this, working in your dream job is awesome but if it no longer adds happiness, you should consider a change in your career. It might be a huge career decision but worth to try, isn’t it?

Looking what is right for your future is not an easy task to accomplish. When you are feeling lost, you might think that this is the end of your journey. The truth is, it is not. Felicia Ricci followed her dream career to be an actor and now, she is a successful businesswoman and motivator. In her TEDxYale talk, Felicia shared her inspiring advice about career satisfaction and change. She said that it is about starting a new and trusting the magic of beginning.

Revision is, in her talk, a life-changing that might take you to another step of success and happiness. Revision, either planned or unplanned, means any change that meaningfully alters your day-to-day life. Here, Felicia reveals her top three tips for making a life revision.

1st revision – Ignoring the odds

If you are innovative, the odds would never come in your way. If you consult to your closest friends or family, they might advise you to just follow the safest way. However, ignoring the odds means you need to trust your gut feeling. You need to consider what steps to take to achieve the next level. Ignore the odds and believe in yourself, these are keys to your success.

2nd revision – Revision can be terrifying and stressful

Change is scary. Yes, it is. It is like waiting for the tomorrow that might never come. Yet, think about which one is scarier, to stuck in your ‘miserable’ life or to not try at all? Felicia said in her talk that you can be scared and freaked out. But remember, there are a bunch of resources out there that can help you – no matter how stuck you are. For example, you can learn from experts, books, life lesson videos, TED talks, and many more. All of these media can help you overcome your fear and anxiety of ‘tomorrow’.

3rd revision – You cannot decide by thinking, you can only decide by doing

Many people often calculate the possibility and impossibility before jumping up on certain idea. Researching what you want to do and where you want to go is very valuable. While this is a good method before actually executing the plan, you might never know what you will find in the real field. The fact is, when you are making a decision, you’ll never know the outcome until you do the thing. Therefore, you should go forth and revise.

Lastly, there is no final draft – keep revising your life to create your reality. Michelle Lombardo said “on considering a career change, I would say go for it, … Life is short-lived, and you’ve got to take it while it’s there and run with it.”

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Peter Drucker once said, “The only skill that will be important in the 21st century is the skill of learning new skills. Everything else will become obsolete over time.”

From what Peter said, it applies that mastering certain skills is essential for survival. Skill is a part of being able to meet challenges of everyday life. For an individual, having skills can help find new ways of thinking and problem solving, recognise failure and take responsibility, analyse option and make decision, as well as develop a greater sense of self-awareness.

Skills are also important when it comes to looking for a job. According to a research by Confederation of British Industry (CBI), students work hard to get good grades but many struggle to gain employment. Employers, on the other hand, are looking not only academic success but also key employability skills such as the ability to self-manage, time and people management, potential to be a leader, and agility and adaptability to different roles and flexible working environment.

Applied education systems (AES) suggested that skill plays as a vital role especially in the age of transformation and information. The skills you master will also determine your future success or failure. Below, AES has listed 3 categories of essential skills you should have in 21st century. Let’s take a look:

#1    Learning skills (the four C’s)

Known also as four Cs, learning skill helps individual acquire mental process needed to adapt and improve upon modern work environment. The 4 C’s stand for:

Critical thinking - This skill is important in business setting. It improves mechanism that weeds out problems and replaces with fruitful endeavours.  

Creativity – As equally important as other skills, creativity empowers individuals to see concepts from different angle which leads to innovations. Innovations, in this case, is one of keys for overall business success.

Collaboration - This skill is seen as the most difficult to acquire as it needs every person in the team to sacrifice part of their own ideas and adopt others to get the best result for company’s success. But once you master it, you can bring firm back from the brink of bankruptcy. In other words, this skill means getting an individual to work together, achieve compromises, and get the best result.  

and Communication. - Communication skill is always important to learn. It is also a requirement for any company to maintain profitability. It can bring all of your educational qualities together.  

#2    Literacy skills (IMT)

Literacy skill or so called IMT is skill you need to learn which concerns with different element in digital comprehension. IMT stands for:

Information literacy - It is a foundational skill that helps you understand facts, especially data point. Being able to separate fact from fiction is what this skill about. Also, in the age of chronic misinformation, finding truth over online platform has become a new job. Therefore, you should learn how to be information savvy otherwise, you will fall prey to myths, misconceptions, and outright lies.

Media literacy - This literacy skill means to help you practice identifying publishing methods, outlets, and source while distinguishing which one is credible and which one is not. Same as information literacy, media literacy also helps find truth in a world that’s saturated with information.

and Technology literacy - Another step to success, industry 4.0 requires you to be tech savvy. This is where technology literacy lies. You need to be able to use computer, cloud programming, and mobile devices to become part of tech world/industry.

#3    Life skills (FLIPS)

Life skill is the final category of skill you should have. Life skills might pertain to your personal life but also blend with professional settings. FLIPS is an abbreviation from:

Flexibility - This skill plays as a vital role for your long-term success. You should be able to know how to change, when to change, and how to react to change. Some people are struggling learning this skills as they need to adapt into 2 uncomfortable ideas: (1) your way isn’t always the best way and (2) you have to know and admit when you’re wrong.

Leadership – Leadership is needed to help you understand decisions that managers and business leaders make. In real-world experience also, you sometimes need to decide or lead entire team. This is where this skill plays its turn.

Initiative - This skill is an attribute that earns rewards. Initiative often means working outside your working hours or spending extra 30 minutes at your job before weekend. Regardless of that, it indicates that someone’s character in term of work ethic and professional progress is good.

Productivity - It is an ability where you complete work in an appropriate amount of time. Business leaders often say it as ‘efficiency’.

and Social skills - Networking is crucial in building and maintaining business relationship. This is why you need social skills. Social skills also mean that you should have good etiquette, manners, politeness, and be able to start a talk.

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Amanda is a fresh graduate who is applying for bunch of jobs, in which some of them are her ‘dream jobs’ and some are just for fad. She’s been waiting for too long and finally got a call for an interview for a job she ‘does not really want’ as she finds that the company has unfavourable reviews on the internet. In the end, she decides to not go and just waits for another interview call. But is that the best move?

Whether you have ever been in Amanda’s position or not, it is true that getting a call for an interview is exciting. Yet, receiving such interview invitation for a job you ‘do not realy like’ can be rather confusing. Should you go? Should you not go?   

Well, instead of feeling confused about uncertain things, you might want to consider these reasons before saying no to an interview invitation.

>> You might learn something

If you receive 3 or 4 interview calls for the same date and time, you should consider the best option and choose one according to your skills or passions. On the other hand, if you only get one job interview, it will be better for you to consider attending it. Rather than sitting around at home and doing nothing, coming to that one interview will not only give you a new experience, but it could also open another door of opportunities as you never know what and who you will meet.

>> The job might turn out to be interesting

This job might not be what you always dream of. But who knows that the job offers thousands of opportunities and employee benefits? The thing is, never judge a book by its cover because you might never find its hidden treasure. Same as applying for a job, never judge the job based only on people’s opinion because a job comfort is rarely alike for each individual.  

>> Interview experience does not hurt

Not all experience is good, but all experience is precious. Attending a dreary interview will never give you a zero lesson. Think about each interview opportunities, listen to their question and pay attention to what hiring managers really want. It can hone your interview skills that would be beneficial for your next interview opportunities. You might do not want the job, but sure you want the experience and lesson. Precious lesson can help you shine your future. Moreover, from the interview, you will know what type of questions and answers you should dig before attending the next ones.

>> The experience can leverage your network

During the interview, you might find someone to connect with. In this case, you can widen your network circle. And if you are lucky enough, you will meet someone who can lead you to your dream job. So, although you do not like to be in that interview session, you should still dress nicely and give positive attitude while keeping a genuine smile. A smile can always be a good start to catch someone’s attention.

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As Albert Einstein once said, “Failure is success in progress.” How many times have you faced failure in your life? Be it in your personal or professional life, there are times when failure is something you cannot avoid. As painful as it might be, you keep trying and doing it all over again. However, at the end of the day, you cannot help feeling tired of doing the same things to no avail. Finally you choose to stop trying, forget the goals, and create a new target. But alas, the luck is not on your side. What should you do, then?

People with whom you share this story might respond and say, “Do not give up” or “Learn from your past mistake.” They might not understand your struggle but at least it can cheer you up. However, you remain feeling stuck and do not know whether you should continue or take a break from your career. When everything do not go as planned, you can relax for a bit and apply this simple plan to keep you going:

Plan A: Take a deep breath

This is the very first yet simple plan you should always have on top of your list. To always breathe everything out, you should have relaxed and peaceful mind before starting everything. By doing so, you will be able to think more clearly, such that it can help you come up with a better career plan and find the way out of all the failed plans that you have done.

Plan B: Stop being such a procrastinator

Let’s be frank. If you are an acute procrastinator and unwilling to leave your comfort zone, you better stop reading BUT if you do want to change, now is the time. While people procrastinate from time to time, you should know that turning procrastination into a permanent habit is not a good thing for your productivity. While you are lazily lying down, people are busy chasing their dreams. Time waits for none, so start your move NOW.

Plan C: Stop being Sluggish

If you want to work things out but you do not want to work towards it, your plans will fail EVERY TIME. Here is the golden principle: when you plan to change a behaviour, you should do it on repeat for 2 weeks or a month. During those times, you will get used to the new custom and it will grow to be a habit. It goes the same as when you want to reach certain goals, you should persistently work on but you should be flexible regarding how to achieve it.

Plan D: Be flexible

Being flexible means you should be able to adapt and adjust yourself in every situation. If you have set certain target in your career journey, you should prepare more than two plans to achieve it. For example, when you apply for your dream job but receives no calls or notification emails for weeks, should you just apply to different company? Maybe. But what if the same things happen again? Will you just wait and do nothing, or should you change the strategy?

Well, the key is to be flexible. Find any potential gap that fails you, such as maybe your CV is not appealing or your skills do not match with the position you are applying apply. Here, you should either learn a new skill in order to achieve your dream role or change your career destination altogether.

Plan E: Stop expecting too much

There is a phrase saying, “Stop expecting, expectation always hurts.” Well, this could be true. Here is an example, your boss asks you to give a presentation about a new product. Feeling anxious about the responsibility, you tell your trusted workmates what you feel but instead of giving words of support, you hear them talking about how incompetent you are and that you do not deserve to be in your position now. As consequences, now you feel worse because the one you trust betrays you.

In this case, you should not always expect too much. Yet, from this experience you gain good lesson regarding your coworker’s personality and learn that you can not depend on anyone but yourself. The only thing that you can do is that you should stop being emotional about the unexpected situation and be responsible of the decision that you make. Also, you should always think positively and do not let negativity consumes you.

Plan F: Write more plans  

As mentioned earlier, you should have more than one plan in order to achieve your goals. In this case, you should sit quietly, think clearly, and write everything in your mind. Do not spend too much thinking whether A is possible or B is impossible. Then, you will need to sort out your plans from easy to difficult or vice versa so you can manage your next step wisely and adjust yourself with it.

Towards the end, the most important advice is that you should DO your plans. Best of luck.

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