For all your life, you have been believing that you have passion in X and want to pursue a professional career in it. You go to university A because of this reason and after graduating, you successfully land on that one job you have always wanted. Yet, why do you feel some kind of dissatisfaction in your heart? You told yourself that, ‘It is my dream, I have always wanted to be here and I don’t want to quit just to regret it later’. Nonetheless, unfortunately, you cannot find enjoyment and excitement in what you are doing. Have your career goal been a lie, then?
Let’s think about this, working in your dream job is awesome but if it no longer adds happiness, you should consider a change in your career. It might be a huge career decision but worth to try, isn’t it?
Looking what is right for your future is not an easy task to accomplish. When you are feeling lost, you might think that this is the end of your journey. The truth is, it is not. Felicia Ricci followed her dream career to be an actor and now, she is a successful businesswoman and motivator. In her TEDxYale talk, Felicia shared her inspiring advice about career satisfaction and change. She said that it is about starting a new and trusting the magic of beginning.
Revision is, in her talk, a life-changing that might take you to another step of success and happiness. Revision, either planned or unplanned, means any change that meaningfully alters your day-to-day life. Here, Felicia reveals her top three tips for making a life revision.
1st revision – Ignoring the odds
If you are innovative, the odds would never come in your way. If you consult to your closest friends or family, they might advise you to just follow the safest way. However, ignoring the odds means you need to trust your gut feeling. You need to consider what steps to take to achieve the next level. Ignore the odds and believe in yourself, these are keys to your success.
2nd revision – Revision can be terrifying and stressful
Change is scary. Yes, it is. It is like waiting for the tomorrow that might never come. Yet, think about which one is scarier, to stuck in your ‘miserable’ life or to not try at all? Felicia said in her talk that you can be scared and freaked out. But remember, there are a bunch of resources out there that can help you – no matter how stuck you are. For example, you can learn from experts, books, life lesson videos, TED talks, and many more. All of these media can help you overcome your fear and anxiety of ‘tomorrow’.
3rd revision – You cannot decide by thinking, you can only decide by doing
Many people often calculate the possibility and impossibility before jumping up on certain idea. Researching what you want to do and where you want to go is very valuable. While this is a good method before actually executing the plan, you might never know what you will find in the real field. The fact is, when you are making a decision, you’ll never know the outcome until you do the thing. Therefore, you should go forth and revise.
Lastly, there is no final draft – keep revising your life to create your reality. Michelle Lombardo said “on considering a career change, I would say go for it, … Life is short-lived, and you’ve got to take it while it’s there and run with it.”